Game of Thrones: Kareena Kapoor Khan

Game of Thrones
BRIDAL ASIA COVER STORY S/S 2020
Author of The Whole Woman, Germaine Greer rightly said, “The essence of pleasure is spontaneity,” and it is this incandescence that makes KAREENA KAPOOR KHAN truly special. There are no beautiful surfaces without depth, based on this philology, the coveted actress has lived her life. The begum of Pataudi, now happy being a mom to social media’s newest star Taimur, talks about Sara, being her ‘bar’ buddy, Saif, a silent strength, and sister Karisma, an inspiration, as life completes a full circle.
From Refugee to Good Newwz, how do you describe your professional life over the years?
It’s been a fantastic journey, a roller coaster ride, and a lot of learning experiences. As an actor one evolves every day, with every film, with every character one essays. I guess I’ve been lucky to do some amazing films with amazing filmmakers. I’ve also learned from my mistakes. I’ve said no to so many good films. But I’ve no regrets.
What have been the high points of your professional life that instilled faith and confidence in you?
For me, everything has been about confidence. What comes along with me is my self-confidence, self-belief and my never-say-die attitude that boosts my confidence. I’ve always worn my confidence on my sleeve right from my debut film Refugee. That attitude will always remain.
What would you say has been the biggest contribution of your husband, Saif Ali Khan, in your career and personally in your life?
Saif helped me heal and made me fall in love with myself. He’s always proud of me and wants me to go out there and achieve and he is silently smiling and watching. I find him to be one of my biggest support.
Were you worried that being a married actor and then having a baby will affect your career in a not-so-positive way?
I wasn’t worried. Marriage is about companionship and it should not stop you from achieving your professional goals. Finally, marriage has come down to what it is, a culmination of love between two people, who want to spend their life together. It is not the end of an era. It’s not the end for a woman. And it’s definitely not the end of a career. It’s just the beginning of a beautiful journey. In fact, after Taimur was born, it was Saif, who told me to hit the gym, get to the studio and get back to work. He told me to take Taimur along and set an example for all young, working mothers, out there, that they can do it too.
Where are you professionally now and what’s the plan ahead?
What are the new projects that you are working on? I’m hearing a lot of scripts, even from new directors. I’m finding it difficult to say yes to anything and everything. I wonder if it’s worth leaving Taimur for. But I aim at doing one or at the most two films a year.
Any plans for moving to web series on Netflix, Amazon Prime? A lot of your peers are experimenting with these platforms now?
If it’s a great part, why not. Let’s see…
According to you, what are the three must-haves in a bridal trousseau? And what kind of jewellery do you personally like?
Diamonds are a girl’s best friend for sure. I love fuss-free Indian wear like Anarkalis which should be a must-have. Easy, everyday wear jewellery for working women who like to add a bit of glam. Maybe a statement necklace for one of your functions and you are good to go.
Your most special memory of your wedding day? And what did you inherit from your mother-in-law in terms of vintage clothing?
It was a truly a Nawabi-style wedding. My mother-in-law gave me an heirloom sari that will always be precious.
How has marriage changed you as a person and an actor? Do you really think motherhood makes you a better individual?
Being a mother has made me realize, the biggest responsibility is to be one. I’ve been a responsible daughter. I’ve been a responsible wife. I hope and pray that I’m a responsible mother to Taimur as well.
What are the five beauty items you can’t do without and would recommend to others?
A lip balm, moisturizer, an eye mask, a homemade face pack, and almond oil.
You are very close to your sister what makes this bond so strong? What are the qualities you admire in her?
Karisma is my older sister, but I think I kind of bully her sometimes. I fire her, and I also give her advice. But eventually, she’s the person I have grown up aspiring to be. Even the way she conducted herself back in the ’90s—she was a very private actor — was inspiring. What I admire the most in her personality is the dignity with which she has conducted her life, her career, and single-handedly brought up her children.
Do you think young actors are much smarter and aware than your generation? Which amongst the young lot of actors do you admire?
From Raazi to Gully Boy, Alia’s (Bhatt) choices of films is outstanding. She reminds me of myself when I did Chameli, Yuva, and Omkara. She is a brilliant actor.
Your favourite designer when it came to your own trousseau?
Manish Malhotra. Always a dear friend. Always there.
How is your relationship with Sara and what advice do you give her as an actor?
We’re like best friends. Saif refuses to come out with us. She’s my barhopping partner. I enjoy my equation with her. I always remember Sara standing up and doing a dab. Both Sara and Ibrahim are like that. I am a friend to them. At times I and Sara chat over a glass of champagne. That’s the way Saif wanted and that’s the way I wanted it. Whenever she wants to call me she does at a time when Saif isn’t around and she doesn’t want to talk to him. She talks to me.
What it the toughest part about being an actor and a celebrity parent? How do you find yourself a peaceful balance?
The toughest part one would think is to juggle your career and personal life, but I love doing nothing and being at home, just with my son, Taimur. But again, I also know that I can’t always do that. So, the idea is to find that balance. Strangely and honestly, I’ve found the perfect balance between my personal and professional life. For instance, if I’m working back-to-back for four-five days, I take the next two-three days off because I want that downtime. I need to have my family and friends around because my life revolves around them. I need to feel like a human being. I can’t treat myself like a robot because this industry and the atmosphere pushes you to become one. People are always on the go—if you’re not at work or a set, you’re on digital platforms like Instagram and Twitter or talking somewhere and giving your comments.
Do you think Taimur has an inkling about his special status? Does his celebrity status bother him?
We want to give him a normal childhood. I do not want to grow up covering Taimur’s face because that would scar him even more. He does not like being clicked all the time as he is growing up and has become aware of what is happening around him. He even denies us if we want to photograph him.



