I do but I don’t

I do but I don't
S/S 2020
The new-age bride with a mind of her own says ‘yes’ on her own terms, as she journeys to the altar with a nuanced approach with pieces that will last long after the wedding! Maybe it’s time to turn the clock back to classicism.
There has always been this tug of war between intellect and beauty. It is a question that has been debated for eons. Apparently, the verdict is divided. Even though feminists insist that the former has longevity, we should not take things at “face value”. However, what is certain and can be written in proverbial stone is the rise of a bride, who is ready to make decisions for herself. She is independent in more ways than one—not just financially, but also intellectually.
That’s why designers are changing their strategy, relooking at what they offer to a thinking mind. This is reflected in the metamorphosis of hues that have seen a move towards subtler, carefree, and easy-going like the millennial bride. Think champagne, blush, and hints of lilac.
The need of the hour is embroideries that are expressive, not ornate, shapes which are accommodating and not restrictive, and most importantly an aesthetic that is fantastical yet rooted in the fabric of reality.
Zardosi, Dabka, Marori have quietly been replaced by beads, pearls, frills, flounce, ruffles, and feathers to give luxury a new meaning even though silk, crepe, organza, and tulle are de rigueur. The emergence of lace and the long-standing love affair with florals persists, as autumnal tones darken with falling leaves.

Interestingly, most succinct brides want to reuse their mother’s wedding outfits making minor alterations. Thus vintage has made a pronounced entry in the trousseau rule book without losing the fulcrum which remains individuality. It is time to begin a new chapter on heirlooms and how beautifully they communicate emotions as she embarks on a new journey.
From maximalism to being a minimalist, what has become the norm in bridal dressing is functionality, giving rise to pockets in lehengas. All she needs is her cellphone and she can dance the night away, hands-free without being bogged down by “clutching on” to a bag!
Restraint and refined are the two buzzwords for a woman, who values her freedom and wants to tie the knot with a partner, who is more of a fellow traveller. Hints of gold, swaths of sequins and a bit of drama with femininity are cool now. The catchphrase is ‘be a woman’ as girly loses steam paving the way for sheer layering, a boho gypsy vibe, shimmering necklines and a heady blend of artsy prints. There is finally a robust bridge between tradition and modernity making pragmatism the mainstay even though it isn’t the end of the road for romantic sleeves and botanical prints, voluminous skirts as well as puffy one-shoulders. The message is clear—texture and movement.
Capes, T-shirt blouses, button-downs, kurtas, tunics and even crop tops as well as nifty bomber jackets have created space for unpredictability making the new-age bride an experimental one. Trumpet sleeves, asymmetry, appliqué, and cowl necks are being preferred over sparkle, as complements have taken over the landscape. The play is between fabrics and techniques that give a feeling of empowerment as she aspires to be her authentic self with trends becoming more global.
Lastly, airy is the new right as heavy gets outdated. What’s energised a bride is her desire to savour the day with fervour. Light-hearted lehengas are now focusing on 3D embellishments, recycled fabrics to go eco-conscious, this season expect the unexpected! As American playwright, Nora Ephron rightly exclaimed, “When you realise you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible.”



